Hi Friends,

The holiday season is a magical time, but it can also be one of the most stressful and expensive parts of the year, especially for busy moms trying to juggle all the festivities on top of everything else. I’m already trying to do the mental math for all the gifts I need to get, all the food to buy and all the little things in between. 

Let’s flip the script this year—by being more intentional, organized, and budget-conscious, you can actually enjoy the season without draining your energy or your wallet. Here’s your guide to holiday prep that helps you stress less and save more, while making beautiful memories with your family.

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1. Set Your Intentions for the Season 🎯

Before you even think about shopping or scheduling, take a moment to breathe and reflect. Ask yourself: What do I want this holiday season to look and feel like? The answer will help guide all your decisions moving forward. Start by pulling out your planner and reviewing it with your family. Map out upcoming events, commitments, and activities so everyone is on the same page. This helps avoid overcommitting or double-booking, reducing stress. If you know you need to purchase something for an upcoming event buying in advance can help you save money. Do you want to focus on experiences vs things? Write down 3 holiday priorities that bring you the most joy. Maybe it’s cozy nights by the fire, baking cookies with the kids, or having relaxed get-togethers with friends. By getting clear on what matters most, you can avoid spending time and money on things that don’t align with your family’s values. Pro Tip: Create a “Holiday Intentions” list in your planner to remind yourself to stay focused on what truly matters.

2. Create a Realistic Budget & Track Expenses 💸

It’s easy to overspend during the holidays when everything is so tempting. But let’s keep it simple: set a budget and stick to it. Take a look at last year’s spending and identify areas where you might have gone overboard. Then, break down your budget into categories like gifts, food, decor, travel, and extra activities. Use a simple spreadsheet, a budgeting app, or even a dedicated section in your planner to track expenses. It can be as simple as a page in your planner or in your Notes app. As you purchase items, update your list to keep yourself accountable. Knowing where your money is going helps you avoid those dreaded January credit card surprises. Pro tip: Allocate a small “just in case” fund for any unexpected expenses that pop up. This way, you’re prepared without dipping into your regular budget.

3. Master the Art of Gift Planning 🎁🛒

Gift-giving doesn’t have to break the bank. The key is to get organized ahead of time. Start by creating a list of everyone you want to buy for and assign a budget to each person. Look for sales, discounts, and even consider homemade gifts that add a personal touch without the hefty price tag. Use your planner to note down gift ideas as they come to you and schedule time for shopping (or making) those gifts. Also, don’t shy away from setting expectations with your family—suggesting a Secret Santa or a “gifts for kids only” policy can reduce the financial and mental load. Pro Tip: Don’t forget to use cashback apps or browser extensions to save a little extra on online purchases!

4. Declutter & Organize Before the Holidays 🧹🎄

Before you start pulling out all the holiday decorations, take some time to declutter. This is especially important if you have kids and are expecting new toys and gifts. Clear out old items, donate what you no longer need, and make space for the new. Take this opportunity to organize holiday-specific items like decorations, wrapping paper, and table settings. Knowing what you already have prevents you from buying duplicates and helps you stay within budget. Pro Tip: Use clear bins with labels for storing decorations—this makes them easier to find next year.

5. Meal Plan & Simplify Your Holiday Menu 🍽️🛒

Food is a big part of the holiday experience, but it’s also a major budget-buster if you’re not careful. Start by planning your holiday meals in advance. Decide on a few favorite dishes that are crowd-pleasers and don’t require fancy, expensive ingredients. Make a shopping list and stick to it to avoid impulse buys. Batch cooking and freezing meals ahead of time can also reduce last-minute stress. If you’re hosting, don’t hesitate to ask guests to bring a dish—it’s a great way to share the load (and the cost!). Pro Tip: Keep a list of your go-to holiday recipes in your planner or app so you can easily reference them year after year.

Final Thoughts: Embrace the Joy of a Simpler Season 🌟

This holiday season, focus on what truly matters: connection, joy, and creating memories with your loved ones. By getting clear on your priorities, budgeting mindfully, and staying organized, you can welcome the new year with less stress and more savings. Here’s to a holiday season filled with warmth, love, and peace. You’ve got this, mama. 🎁✨

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